Since 2012, this speedy, time-tested method has been used by millions of people to overcome irrational, intrusive thoughts and get long-term mental clarity and peace of mind

And this step-by-step method has helped thousands of retroactive and/or obsessive jealousy sufferers and me to put an end to excessive questioning and reassurance-seeking in eight weeks or less.

This is not about expensive medications.

It’s not about overpriced counselors that pretend to “understand” a bizarre issue like retroactive jealousy, or obsessive jealousy.

This is not about any prescription drugs or under-the-counter pills.

This is a completely natural method that reverses your “jealousy hormones” (more on that later) that are preventing your from living a jealousy-free life.

Every day I’m getting emails from people thanking me for showing them this revolutionary method that actually WORKS.

And if you stick with me, I’ll show you this breakthrough solution that nobody has access to but me and my students.

Honestly, I have never seen such a straightforward way to overcome such a complex problem.

But before I give you all the details, let me tell you a quick story...

More than a decade ago, I lost the first serious relationship I ever had because of obsessive/retroactive jealousy.

(ie. Intrusive thoughts, curiosity, and “mental movies” about a partner’s past.)

We had a fun, meaningful, loving, and prosperous relationship.

Until...

One day, we had an innnocent discussion about her past dating experiences with her ex-boyfriend.

• Constant painful “mental movies” of my girlfriend with her past partner
• Comparing myself to her ex-partner
• Intrusive thoughts
• Anxiety and depression
• Constantly wanting to snoop through her phone
• Asking her more and more questions about her past

I did some research and found out that what I was feeling is called “retroactive jealousy,” but I didn’t feel particularly “jealous” per se…

I just couldn’t stop thinking about it…

And here’s the thing—

There was nothing weird, or strange, or particularly out-of-the-ordinary about my girlfriend’s past.

My friends and family thought I was crazy.

They said:

“Bro, just don’t think about it.”

“Who cares what your girlfriend did before she met you?”

“Everybody has a past; just accept it.”

You may have also had people say these things to you.

But these consolations never worked for me.

This is when I decided to dive deep.

I decided to do everything I could to put an end to my retroactive jealousy, and start feeling like my “old” self again.

I booked a one-way flight ticket to India, and spent a lot of time there over the next few years...

It was unusual and so different from what I’d been used to in the Western world.

How happy most people seemed.

How stress-free they seemed.

How so many of them woke up and went to bed with no worries.

Despite the fact, horrible things happen there every day — earthquakes, food shortages, electricity outages.

I started asking questions about how this could be possible.

And one day, I decided to visit a famous local temple where many of the monks were located.

I asked my teacher:

How to silence the inner voices?

How to end the “mental movies” playing in my mind?

How can you “detach” yourself from your thoughts?

How to achieve peace of mind?

And most importantly, how to be happy—no matter what is going on in your life.

My teacher showed me a very simple (yet effective) method that I had never heard of back in my native Canada.

The solution didn’t involve any special meditations, medications, drugs, or anything like that.

I wasn’t sure if this method was going to work for me or not.

I tried everything under the sun to cure my retroactive jealousy, yet nothing worked.

But because I saw everybody around me seemed so calm and so peaceful, I needed to give it a try.

I was skeptical. But I tried it with an open mind. I forgot everything I learned about acquiring peace of mind, happiness, and joy.

I started practicing.

And years of experimentation, endless research, and a bit of trial and error, eventually I was able to:

My work has been featured in BBC News, HuffPost, The Art of Charm, and many of the most popular podcasts and publications in the world.

I was interviewed for a BBC Radio 4 Documentary.

My work on retroactive jealousy has been referenced in scientific studies from researchers at Ohio State University…

I published several books on jealousy that helped many find the right path to becoming jealousy-free for good.

But I’m not here to brag.

Far from it.

I’m here to help you overcome this annoying, bizarre condition that ruins your relationships, friendships, and personal life.

Like I helped all these people below:

After almost a decade of coaching, working one-on-one with hundreds of men and women from all over the world, here’s what I’ve realized:

If you're struggling with retroactive jealousy, and/or obsessive jealousy...

After years of research on the topic and using this method, and seeing so many other RJ sufferers find peace of mind the same way I did, one day I realized—

I cracked the code.

I realized why so many people suffer from retroactive and/or obsessive jealousy.

I realized why so many people fail to overcome it.

I realized why so many people can’t achieve peace of mind and mental clarity.

Here’s the funny part…

The “cure” is right in front of you.

It’s based on some wisdom that you’ve probably been hearing since you were in kindergarten.

And yet, many of us still ignore it…

When I tell you about it, you’ll think I’m crazy… but bear with me.

Without this realization, I’d still be depressed, anxious, and most likely, single.

The MAIN reason why you’re spinning wheels in the mud trying to overcome excessive jealousy and find your inner calm is...

You’re unique.

Before you roll your eyes, let me explain what I’m talking about…

Ever since kindergarten, you’ve probably heard people tell you:

“Each and every one of us is unique.”

That’s it.

This is why cookie-cutter tricks, hacks, and strategies won’t do the job.

It’s like wearing a size 13 shoe when your real size is 10.

You wouldn’t wear shoes like that, right? Because it doesn’t make sense.

Those shoes would fit someone else, but they wouldn’t fit you.

Along similar lines, you’ve probably tried at least one of the following:

• Psychotherapy like CBT, ERP, etc.
• Medications like Clomipramine, Paroxetine, and Sertraline
• Trying to “forget about it” using alcohol and drugs
• Asking your partner endless questions hoping that’ll solve things
• Gestalt therapy/empty chairwork
• Imagery rescripting
• Seeking endless help from randos on YouTube, or blogs

Let me ask you:

Did this solve your problem for good? Most likely not.

(Otherwise, you wouldn’t be reading this page)

These are merely cookie-cutter solutions that band-aid the symptoms for a week or two…

Until one event triggers your next “attack.”

I remember. I’ve been there.

I know how anxious, hopeless, and stressed symptoms like “mental movies,” intrusive thoughts, and obsessive curiosity can make you feel.

But when it comes to overcoming retroactive and/or obsessive jealousy, you need to identify your own personal root cause of it and apply the solution that works for you.

For me, and so many others, treating the symptoms of retroactive or obsessive jealousy simply isn’t enough.

For permanent peace of mind, you need to go deeper, and eliminate the source.

That’s why I’m so glad I found this method that will put a stop to any jealousy “trigger.”

Where you’ll finally be able to fully trust and enjoy your partner.

Where you no longer feel that urge to snoop through your partner’s phone every couple of days.

You won’t feel that impulse to stalk your partner’s social media accounts.

The endless, unnecessary destructive questions about your partner’s past (or present) will finally stop.

You’ll finally be able to build a better life and relationship for yourself.

You’ll finally feel like your “old self” again.

You’ll finally stop worrying about when—not “if—your jealousy will destroy a beautiful relationship.

By now you may be asking: how?

Here’s a quick version of the back story…

The solution I’m sharing with you today was designed by Chinese monks because the suicide rate in China was growing rapidly back in 2012.

Where a suicide occurred every 2 minutes.

That’s why China had to find a solution for mental issues that would work quickly and efficiently.

There was no time to waste.

So the Chinese government and various spiritual communities decided to start working together to find a way to reduce the suicide rate ASAP.

They took a completely different approach to solving mental problems than we do in the West.

After nine months of testing, they developed this revolutionary method.

And in just one year, the suicide rate dropped by 64%.

Making China the #1 country in the world in suicide reduction.

Even better, this method works extremely well for other mental problems:

• Business problems
• Anxiety problems
• Anger problems
• Personal problems
• Family problems
• Suspicion and paranoia

Millions of people are using it every day to remove various anxieties from their lives forever.

As I mentioned, most people go wrong when they try to beat jealousy and get peace of mind by applying pieced-together, cookie-cutter solutions they find online.

Because temporaraily easing the symptoms is not a long-term solution—it’s only a band-aid.

But here is something you should know.

If you’ve been seaching in vain for a long-term cure for retroactive/obsessive jealousy, it’s not your fault…

You’re doing your best to eliminate jealousy from your life. It’s easy to feel hopeless sometimes.

And no, you’re not crazy.

Jealousy has been a “thing” since the hunter-gatherer stage of our evolution as humans.

Where males needed to be sure that their offspring was, in fact, theirs, to make sure they were passing on their own genes, as opposed to raising children that weren’t “theirs.”

And females needed to ensure that their mate would be providing for their offspring, rather than those of another female.

(Our caveman-brains aren’t all that different from our brains today.)

That’s why you shouldn’t feel ashamed.

Don’t ever feel weak, hopeless, or incapable because of jealousy.

Take it from me, as the leading public figure on retroactive jealousy—

Only a tiny fraction of people have the courage to truly “own” their problem and find the solution.

And that’s why, if you’re reading this, you’re already ahead of so many people.

And when you discover this unique, personalized solution, you’ll finally be feeling like your “old self” again.

• No more intrusive thoughts
• No painful vivid “mental movies” about your partner’s past
• No more jealous episodes
• No more anxiety, stress, and frustration
• No more horrible, “sick” feeling in the pit of your stomach
• No more struggling in silence

As I said, the Chinese are famous for overcoming problems fast and easily.

And that’s the core principle of the Solution 水.

It’s scientifically proven to:

• Kill your obsessive curiosity.
• Help you trust your partner more.
• Dig deep into your subconscious mental “programming.”
• Put an end to painful, intrusive thoughts.
• Identify the root causes of your jealousy episodes.
• Put a permanent end to that uncomfortable feeling in your stomach when you think, or speak about your partner’s past
• Erase anxiety, stress, and “running thoughts.”
• Help you feel like your “old” self again.

Without having to pay for risky drugs or clueless therapists.

Solution 水, or in plain English, the “liquid solution,” is a revolutionary way of dealing with personal issues.

Now, as you remember…

When it comes to overcoming retroactive/obsessive jealousy, the “tips,” “tricks,” and “strategies” you find in random blogs or on YouTube don’t work for long.

That’s because not even two human beings are exactly alike.

How could one solution work for everybody?

It’s impossible.

And the Chinese knew that.

Using the 水 framework, you’ll design a solution that’s personalized to you. To your problem. To the depth and scope of your particular experience of retroactive/obsessive jealousy.

It’s the difference between buying a cheap suit off the rack, and having one tailor-made to fit you.

China invented this method to work for 96.7% of the population.

It doesn’t matter if you’ve struggled with retroactive/obsessive jealousy for five days or five years.

It doesn’t matter if you think there is no end to your jealousy.

It doesn’t matter how “bad” you feel your partner’s past is.

It doesn’t matter if you think you’re immune to every solution out there.

Solution 水 is proven to work for everybody and follows a three-step process:

Step #1: Identifying the root cause of your jealousy

This is by far the most important step of the method.

With the help of a few exercises, you’ll dig into your subconscious mental “programming” that was developed in your past.

You’ll discover why you’re feeling anxious, stressed, and depressed.

You’ll understand why you react to certain triggers.

You’ll get a clear picture of the true basis of your jealousy and irrational, intrusive thoughts.

The truth is, without this step, you can’t solve any mental condition.

It’s like trying to fix your car engine by swapping the tire.

Similarly, most jealousy sufferers focus solely on eliminating the “symptoms” of retroactive jealousy without getting rid of the source.

Step #2: Overcoming the “jealousy triggers”

This step is crucial for you to start crafting a personalized solution.

You’ll learn to identify the triggers and how to control them.

You’ll learn a step-by-step system to diagnose triggers and how to handle them with ease.

Most people just try to forget about jealousy, but in reality, that’s not possible. Knowing the subconscious triggers for the episode is crucial.

Step #3: Crafting a personalized solution

This is where the dots connect.

Here, you’ll do one extremely beneficial exercise that’s going to start erasing irrational thoughts before they even appear.

Everyone who has completed this ONE exercise reported a major, near-instant improvement in the intensity and frequency of their jealousy.

Each and every step in this section is meant to dig deep into your hard-wired, “background” mental programs that you may not even be aware you’re running.

This way, you can identify the problem and design a solution that erases intrusive thoughts and “mental movies,” whether it’s about your partner’s past, or anything else.

And once you do this, you’ll quickly start feeling like your old self again.

No more sleepless nights and grumpy mornings.

No more suffering in silence.

No more jealousy episodes ruining your relationship.

This method is surprisingly straightforward to implement.

All you have to do is follow these three simple steps.

Way back in 2013, I started doing 1-on-1 coaching with men and women who want to put retroactive/obsessive jealousy behind them, and get permanent peace of mind.

And the success my clients achieved was insane.

(You can read one client testimonial below)

However, at a certain point, I had a problem.

As you know, there are only so many hours in a day, and my coaching roster was always full.

(It was a good problem to have, but it was still a problem.)

So I started pointing RJ sufferers to my introductory course for getting quick relief from the symptoms of retroactive jealousy, Get Over Your Partner’s Past Fast.

And they absolutely loved it. I’m so proud of what my first course has helped so many people accomplish.

But…

Many retroactive/obsessive jealousy sufferers wanted to dig deeper.

They wanted a more advanced method to beat their jealousy, attain permanent peace of mind, and get the benefits of 1-on-1 coaching.

They wanted outcomes similar to the ones I’ve helped hundreds of 1-on-1 coaching clients receive — long term freedom, peace of mind, a better life and relationships.

But again—there are only so many hours in a day. And I’m only one guy.

This was when I decided to do a little experiment.

A couple of years ago I started building a more “advanced” course that follows THE EXACT steps I take my coaching clients through.

… The same exercises

… The same guidelines

… The same pace

… Nothing left out

The only difference was the price, which is just a fraction of the price of a dedicated 1-on-1 coaching program.

This is how The Overcoming Jealousy Blueprint was born, and ever since, it has been a massive success.

Let me make a bold claim—

This course is the most advanced program for overcoming retroactive or obsessive jealousy out there. Quite simply, there’s nothing like it.

It doesn’t only focus on helping you overcome the “symptoms” of retroactive or obsessive jealousy…

By going deeper and eliminating the source of retroactive/obsessive jealousy, as opposed to merely treating the symptoms.

It helps you to build a better future, and relationship, with retroactive/obsessive jealousy in the rearview mirror.

And my students absolutely love it.

Here is a tiny sample of their stories from my email inbox:

The Overcoming Jealousy Blueprint™ is a simple, time-tested 8-week step-by-step program that will put obsessive/retroactive jealousy behind you…

And help you discover mental clarity and permanent peace of mind.

In this course, you’ll discover daily video coaching lessons for the next eight weeks, where you’ll perform these three simple steps:

1. Identifying the root cause
2. Overcoming the triggers
3. Crafting the personalized solution

Every day you’ll be assigned a simple exercise that will help you with overcoming jealousy and achieving a stress-free life.

However, you can go through the course at entirely your own pace.

I know you’re a busy person,with things to do… that’s why I made this course as flexible as humanly possible.

Whenever you have a bit of free time, the videos will be waiting for you.

So it’s perfect for full-time employees, students and other busy individuals.

Many of these exclusive exercises and lessons are based on ancient techniques from Buddhist and Stoic philosophy that speak directly to your subconscious, where your retroactive and obsessive jealousy originally formed.

(Because remember: what good is only treating the symptoms if you don’t eliminate the source?)

Everything is packed in easy-to-follow and short videos that you can watch anywhere and anytime.

All you need is a smartphone, PC, laptop or tablet, and a half-decent internet connection.

You might be wondering why I’m sharing this solution with the general public, as opposed to just my coaching clients.

And the answer is rather simple.

Because I know it’s not your fault that you feel this way.

Because I know how hopeless retroactive/obsessive jealousy can make you feel.

Because I know how stressed out, frustrated, and exhausted you feel.

Because, as you know, I once ruined a beautiful relationship myself due to retroactive jealousy.

• If you want permanent peace of mind about your partner’s past (or present).
• If you want to regain mental clarity and focus.
• If you want to bounce back from bad days and “jealousy attacks” within seconds.
• If you want to overcome retroactive/obsessive jealousy for good.
• If you want to put a permanent stop to intrusive thoughts and obsessive curiosity.
• If you wake up and go to bed with disturbing “mental movies” about your partner’s past (or present)
• If you feel like “nothing” works.
• If you don’t want to destroy your current (or future) relationship.
• If you’re ready to feel like your “old self” again.
• If you’re sick and tired of “failed, piecemeal, short-term solutions,” that leave you feeling even more hopeless.

And to make my point even more clear…

You don’t have to believe me.

There are two occasions where this program will not be the right fit for you.

1. If you’re diagnosed with any sort of severe mental problems such as depression, bipolar disorder, or schizophrenia, then this course is not for you. Seek a professional mental health expert.
2. If you’re not willing to risk a little bit of time and energy to go through the course and complete the exercises, then don’t bother buying this course. This is a proven method but you must complete the necessary steps to get results.

So: Are You Ready To Beat Retroactive and/or Obsessive Jealousy for Good?

If you read this far, I’m sure you’re interested in learning the Solution 水 to put a permanent “end” to your jealousy and rediscover your inner calm and happiness.

And at this point, you might be wondering how much the Overcoming Jealousy Blueprint is going for…

But let me ask you a question first:

How much would it be worth to you to:

• Skip all the guesswork and go straight for the fastest and proven method to get permanent peace of mind.
• Put a “stop” to the intrusive thoughts and obsessive curiosity.
• Save (and strengthen) your relationship with the partner you want to build a life with.
• Put an end to the painful “mental movies” of your partner having sex with ex-partners.
• Never, ever, be waiting anxiously for your next “jealousy attack.”
• Have a good night’s sleep and wake up rested and re-energized every morning.
• Feel like your “old self” again.
• Get long term peace of mind and freedom from retroactive/obsessive jealousy

Something like $3,176 would be a bargain, right?

This is how much eight-weeks worth of weekly, one-on one coaching would be.

Just imagine how much time you’d save on sketchy tricks and hacks from randos on YouTube or blogs, and go straight for the most time-tested, efficient, and effective money.

Just imagine how much money you’d save on mental health products, therapy sessions with clueless counsellors, and so on.

Imagine permanent peace of mind.

However…

You don’t have to pay anywhere close to $3,176.

Not even $1,588. And also not $794.

Remember, there are hundreds of one-on-one clients who used this very method to put and end to their retroactive/obsessive jealousy, and build a better life and better relationship.

Here is a sample of what they’re saying:

“As you know, I suffered from Rj for almost two years... There's no way I could've gotten to this point of peace again without you. Getting the chance to share my story with you and getting your personal thoughts and encouragement was unbelievable...

I was stunned by your listening ability, to give such spot-on and useful advice. You totally changed my life for the good... I'm forever grateful.” - Raymond

“Thank you for such a great one-on-one conversation. The insight and input you gave me was huge...

I found huge value in our time together and got things from you I would not have received anywhere else. It's made a big difference... Thank you again for all of your work.” - James

“You truly understand this weird issue and have provided me with so much relief. I really have felt that you can completely relate, and know exactly what to do... You have reassured me that there is nothing wrong with my relationship and did a great job at separating the two from irrational thought processes…

Thank you for everything... you have actually changed my life!” - Alison

Some of these clients paid me thousands of dollars to personally coach and guide them through the storm of retroactive/obsessive jealousy.

But today, you can get this same method for only a fraction of the cost.

Right now, you can get The Overcoming Jealousy Blueprint course that will teach you to identify and excavate the root causes of your jealousy, eliminate the triggers, and implement a personalized solution for permanent peace of mind for only $397.

Yes, only $397.

Meaning you’re ONLY paying around seven bucks a day for eight weeks to erase retroactive/obsessive jealousy from your life forever.

That’s two Starbucks cold brews a day.

Not bad, right?

And all you have to do is to click the button below and secure The Overcoming Jealousy Blueprint at the original price of $397.

And ever since I launched the course in 2021, the refund rate is still close to zero.

But if, for some weird reason, the Overcoming Jealousy Blueprint doesn’t work for you…

You can send me an email within 60 days of your purchase, and I’ll refund every cent.

And no, I won’t ask you questions.

I won’t ask you to show me “proof of work” or anything like that.

That’s how confident I am that this simple method can (and will) work for you as it has for countless others.

Bonus video #1: How to envision your ideal future - Installing the lessons of the course in your subconscious mind

Bonus video #2: Checking in with yourself - How to “measure” your progress. Here you’ll learn to check which methods work best for you, so you know where you need to “double down”

Bonus video #3: Defining your relationship - In my strong opinion, you can’t start a relationship without doing this

Bonus video #4: Healing trauma from past relationships - Complete this step and you’ll quickly become aware of the subconscious relationship “baggage” that’s ruining your life. Here, you’ll learn how to leave it behind.

Bonus video #5: A simple exercise you can do in less than four minutes in the morning that will help you start every day on a positive note

Bonus video #6: Practicing mindfulness – another Zen Buddhist exercise that will help you detach from unwanted intrusive thoughts whenever you need to

Bonus video #7: Dealing with stressful situations - A dead-simple way to react to ANY stressful situation with a calm mind

Bonus video #8: Embodied mindfulness practice - A remarkably effective method for relaxing your body in any moment, no matter how stressful

Bonus video #9: Strengthening your mindfulness practice - How to start and strengthen your mindfulness practice with just five minutes a day

The total value of these bonus videos alone is hundreds of dollars.

But they’re yours for free when you purchase The Overcoming Jealousy Blueprint today.

So…

At this point, you’ve discovered how the Chinese designed this simple, time-tested method for everybody.

… No matter your past experiences

… No matter how long you’ve been struggling

… No matter how “hopeless” you may currently feel

You’ve read all kinds of success stories from my students and past clients.

So now you have two choices:

Option #1 - You can continue on as you are, waking up in the morning and going to bed at night thinking about your partner’s past, or other obsessive jealous ruminations. Constant “mental movies” and endless curiosity. No peace of mind because you feel like there are potential triggers all around you that cause random anxious “attacks.” By doing that, you’re also worried about ruining your current relationship; not to mention, even if you find a new partner with a different past, unfortunately, it’s almost certain that retroactive jealousy will creep back into your life, making permanent peace of mind all but impossible.

Or…

Option #2 - You decide to give this affordable, time-tested, scientifically-proven program a try, 100% risk-free. And finally, flip the “jealousy switch” in your brain that will allow you to regain mental clarity and peace of mind. And at last, no more painful “mental movies,” intrusive thoughts, anxiety, and obsessive curiosity.

Click below and say goodbye to retroactive/obsessive jealousy forever:

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