MORE FREEDOM.

MORE clarity.

MORE peace.

How would it feel to wake up every morning beside the woman of your dreams with a new sense of clarity, direction, and peace of mind?

Are you a man who wants more?

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You are in the right place...

if you're a man who wants more.

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Tell me if any of this sounds familiar...

You aren't getting the love, affection, or sex from your relationship (or dating life) that you crave...

You work hard, but lack a deep sense of purpose and fulfilment from your efforts...

You often feel restless, irritable, dissatisfied with everyday life, and can't always pinpoint why...

​​You wish you had greater clarity, direction, and peace of mind when it comes to planning a better future...

You love your woman deeply, but feel like something is just "off;" you sometimes wonder if the "spark is gone..."

You find yourself in unsatisying relationships with women, or you don't have the right woman in your life at all...

life and relationship coaching for men

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Hi there. My name is Zachary Stockill, and I'm an author, podcaster, and YouTuber.

I'm also a coach devoted to service, and helping other men get what they want and deserve out of life.

I help high-achieving men build (or save) incredible relationships, have better sex, regain direction and purpose, and reconnect to their masculinity.

I hold a certificate in Cognitive Behavior Therapy from Wilfrid Laurier University (Canada), and my methodology is a based on a wide range of modern coaching modalities and cutting-edge research.

My work has been featured in BBC News, BBC Radio 4, HuffPost, the Art of Charm, and many other popular podcasts and publications.

More importantly, every day, I get to live the life of my dreams...

Sharing an incredible relationship with an incredible woman

Living my purpose, and serving my community

Enjoying location-independent entrepreneurship and financial freedom

Experiencing true clarity and peace of mind of who I am, and what I want

Since 2013, I've helped men around the world sort through the important questions in life, such as:

"How can I build (or save) a great relationship with my girlfriend/wife?"

"What do I need to do to gain more clarity, purpose, and direction in life?"

"How can I truly be "the best" my girlfriend/wife ever had in bed?

"What can I do to gain peace of mind, and enjoy greater happiness and fulfilment in my relationship?"

"How can I attract an incredible woman in my life? What are the qualities I should I be looking for in a potential girlfriend or future wife?"

"How can I work toward a better future--and gain the clarity and perspective that will get me and my woman where I want to go?"

helping men build incredible relationships, have better sex, and reconnect to their masculinity

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For more than a decade now, I've been working with hundreds of high-achieving men from around the world, helping them build and/or revitalize their relationships, blow their woman's mind in bed, and reconnect to their masculinity.

Over the years, I've worked with multi-millionaires, men at the absolute peaks of their professions, first-year college students, the elderly, and everything in between.

Over ten years ago, I started as a coach working on the issue of "retroactive jealousy."

And if you want to explore that on a call with me, great.

However, if you want to explore broader themes, and you're a man who wants more, you're in the right place.

One-on-one coaching is for high-achieving men who want one or all of the following:

Reconnect to your "masculine core," and gain a deeper sense of direction, clarity, and focus in your life and relationship

Truly be the "best she's ever had" in the bedroom, and learn advanced sexual practices, skills, and techniques

Reignite the "spark," have more sex, and experience more joy and passion in your relationship

Get the inside scoop on "what women want," and learn what to look for in a potential wife or girlfriend

My coaching for men is informed by three ancient pillars:

Stoic Philosophy: several millennia ago, a community of men discovered the answers to many of the most important questions in life, relating to masculine purpose, our inherent freedom, and taking on our responsibilities as men with deep consciousness and clarity.

Stoic wisdom is just as vital, clarifying, and enriching today as it was when it was first committed to paper, thousands of years ago.

Buddhism and Mindfulness Psychology: Amidst the chaos of the modern world, men who want to grow in love, freedom, clarity, and peace of mind, need at least some training in basic mindfulness practices.

Like the Stoics, we can look to so much of the wisdom of the ancients in guiding our mindset, and informing our choices, to build a better, more peaceful future with our woman, and the world.

Tantra, and Masculine-Feminine Polarity: No matter what the news headlines try to tell you, you better believe that men and women are different. Very different.

We respond to different attraction cues, and communication styles. We often have different needs, wants, and motivations in relationships.

More than any other school of thought, Tantrism offers us highly practical, incredibly useful skills, techniques, and perspectives for building better relationships, having better sex, and growing in love.

Based on these key pillars:

I BELIEVE THAT THERE ARE 3 THINGS EVERY MAN NEEDS TO FOCUS ON:

If you’re a high-achieving man, I believe you need to focus on each of these three areas in order to attain long-term clarity, direction, and peace of mind:


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MINDSET

What is the "mental wiring" holding you back from being the man you could be? How to "rewire" what's not working?

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LOVE

How can you share more passion, deeper sex, and experience life's deepest bliss--the devotion of a remarkable woman?

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PURPOSE

What is your mission, as a man? Why are you here? How can you regain clarity, direction, and focus on what matters?

get the clarity and perspective you need, and become the man you were destined to be

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hundreds of CLIENT success stories since 2013

meet Men who are getting more:

Thank-you for such a great one-on-one conversation.

The insight and input you gave me was huge... I found huge value in our time together and got things from you I would not have received anywhere else. It's already made a difference...

Thank-you again for all of your work.

Thank-you for such a great one-on-one conversation.

The insight and input you gave me was huge... I found huge value in our time together and got things from you I would not have received anywhere else. It's already made a difference...

Thank-you again for all of your work.

"J"
USA
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Zach served as the best possible mentor for love, life and masculinity for me.

I don’t know what I’d do without his work.

Zach served as the best possible mentor for love, life and masculinity for me.

I don’t know what I’d do without his work.

Christopher
UK
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Zachary is a deep and great listener. He will make you feel important when you speak and then show you how to reframe your thought process that will ultimately make you feel more confident about the situation.

After only speaking with him for an hour it changed my thought process and helped me achieve what I wanted much faster...

It was very helpful.

Zachary is a deep and great listener. He will make you feel important when you speak and then show you how to reframe your thought process that will ultimately make you feel more confident about the situation.

After only speaking with him for an hour it changed my thought process and helped me achieve what I wanted much faster...

It was very helpful.

Jason
USA
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It's hard to describe how different I feel now compared to a couple of months ago...

Getting the chance to share my story with you and getting your personal thoughts and encouragement was unbelievable... I was stunned by your listening ability, to give such spot-on and useful advice.

You totally changed my life for the good... I'm forever grateful.

It's hard to describe how different I feel now compared to a couple of months ago...

Getting the chance to share my story with you and getting your personal thoughts and encouragement was unbelievable... I was stunned by your listening ability, to give such spot-on and useful advice.

You totally changed my life for the good... I'm forever grateful.

"Raymond"
Belgium
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My GUARANTEE to you:

As you can see with the numerous testimonials on this page, everyone who shows up to the coaching calls, and follows the laid-out steps, gets results.

But if, for whatever crazy reason, after coaching and taking the steps, you haven't made the progress you were hoping for?

Simply send me an email within 30 days of your purchase confirming that you were unsatisfied with your coaching call, give me your word that you completed the necessary steps I outlined, and I'll give you free email coaching for an additional 14 days.

Yes, you read that right.

If, after coaching and completing the steps, you haven't made significant progress? I'll offer you an additional two weeks of unlimited email consultations, absolutely free.

Why am I willing to take on this kind of risk?

Because I know coaching works.

What you will discover in one-on-one coaching changed my life, changed the lives of hundreds of others, and I know it will change yours, as you'll see.

I can't tell you how gratifying it has been for me to work one-on-one with hundreds of high-achieving men from around the world, helping them take back the power, build incredible relationships, and gain greater clarity, focus, and direction.

If we work together, I will always take your trust and support seriously. I will be committed to helping you build the life, relationship, and future you deserve.

I can't wait to connect with you.


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frequently asked questions:

"How do I know I'm a good candidate for coaching?"

We'll probably be a good fit if you're over the age of 18, you're highly motivated, you already have some familiarity with my work, you're open to actionable, practical advice, and you're willing and able to make an investment in yourself and your future. A sense of humour is also essential.

"Are you a licensed psychologist, or mental health professional?"

Please remember that I am not a licensed psychologist, therapist, counselor, etc. And my coaching is certainly not a remedy for suicidal depression.

Coaching is not a substitute for professional advice by legal, medical, or other qualified professionals, nor is it a substitute for mental health treatment. Reliance on any information provided by coaching is solely at your own risk. If we work together, you are to take everything I say with a grain of salt. Results may (and will) vary.

"What happens after my payment is processed?"

You will immediately receive an email with more information about my client-coach agreement, how to make the best possible use of our time together, and a link to schedule our call.

"How will we connect?"

My preferred option is to connect with you on a one-on-one video call using Zoom, Skype, or WhatsApp. Otherwise, if you'd prefer, I can telephone you at your convenience (slots available Mondays through Saturdays). I maintain a flexible call schedule to accommodate clients on multiple continents throughout the world.

"What if I don't want to make an investment like this?"

As stated above, experience has taught me to work exclusively with highly-motivated individuals who are willing and able to invest in themselves. I've discovered that the people who are truly committed to change are the ones who actually do change, and helping to facilitate real and lasting change is what I'm interested in.

In order so that my coaching roster doesn't become overwhelming, and I have the necessary energy to offer every one of my clients, I charge a premium price for a premium service. It's not for everyone.

"Will our coaching sessions be confidential?"

Absolutely. I take the privacy of my clients very seriously.

Your private details, your story, your information will never be shared or sold. What we talk about will always stay strictly between you and I. Confidentiality guaranteed.

"I have more questions about coaching..."

Send me an email at zachary@retroactivejealousy.com with "Coaching" in the subject line. I'll get back to you as soon as I can.

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