Discover Clarity And Peace Of Mind About Your Partner's Past
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One-on-One Coaching with Zachary Stockill
Since 2013, I've worked with over a thousand men and women to help them overcome unwanted intrusive thoughts and/or obsessive curiosity about their partner's past, and save their relationships.
My specialties as a coach include:
No more "mental movies." No more obsessive thoughts.
Experience for yourself the incredible liberation of overcoming retroactive jealousy. When we work together, you will discover:
New perspectives and techniques for letting go of obsessive thinking about your partner's past fast
A supportive, non-judgmental environment to share your retroactive jealousy story
My honest feedback, suggestions, and strategies for healing from RJ in your specific situation
Save and strengthen your relationship--before it's too late.
Retroactive jealousy has been responsible for more than a few breakups and divorces. Get the support you need for fast healing, including:
Methods for limiting anxiety and "mental movies" and "triggers" in the moment
New techniques, perspectives, and strategies for repairing some of the damage done to your relationship
The unique perspective of someone with almost a decade of experience working with retroactive jealousy sufferers from every corner of the world
Sort out the "values" question once and for all.
One of my strengths as a coach is helping RJ sufferers spot the difference between irrational RJ, and genuine "red flags" in their relationship
Get an unbiased, impartial outside opinion about whether or not there are genuine "red flags" and/or "dealbreakers" in your partner's past
Get in touch with your personal boundaries and values, and gain greater insight on how to build the relationship of your dreams
Save yourself years of stress and confusion, and determine whether your jealousy is "irrational" or "rational" once and for all
Helping men navigate modern dating and relationships.
Another passion of mine is helping men navigate the complex world of sex, dating, and relationships in the 21st century
Discover the unvarnished truth about what women really want, and how to attract (and keep) the woman of your dreams
Learn advanced sexual practices and techniques for truly being "the best she's ever had" in bed and beyond (not suitable for YouTube)
Gain clarity about your "life purpose" as a man, and how this will directly lead to an incredible relationship and/or dating life
11 Years
of coaching experience
1000+
client success stories
1
proven system for beating RJ
Finally...
Talk to Someone Who Actually Gets It
One-on-One Coaching with Zachary Stockill
Hi. I'm Zachary.
I'm an author, coach, YouTuber and podcaster, and the founder of RetroactiveJealousy.com.
Since 2013, I've been helping men and women from around the world overcome obsessive curiosity and intrusive thoughts about their partner's past, and save their relationships.
I've worked one-on-one with hundreds of retroactive jealousy sufferers from all over the world, helping them gain quick clarity and peace of mind about their partner's past, and beat retroactive jealousy for good.
I work with a select number of high-achieving, highly-motivated retroactive jealousy sufferers who are willing to make an investment in their future, who are open to time-tested, proven advice, and who are willing to making the necessary changes to build a life free from retroactive jealousy.
As you probably realize, nowadays, anyone with a social media account or a YouTube channel can go around calling themselves a "coach."
So in case you were wondering...
"What makes you different from other coaches?"
My work has been featured in major media publications, and cited in research conducted at Harvard and the Ohio State University.
Over a decade, I've worked with over 2000+ retroactive jealousy sufferers from every corner of the planet.
I've worked with minor celebrities, multi-millionaires, students, CEO's, young people, the elderly, and everyone in between.
Go to my website, or read below, and you'll find dozens of detailed, 5-star testimonials from my clients...
Men and women who are thrilled to be fully enjoying their relationships again, where retroactive jealousy is a thing of the past (and not the present).
I hold a certificate in Cognitive Behavior Therapy from Wilfrid Laurier University (Canada), and my methodology is a based on a wide range of modern coaching modalities and cutting-edge research.
Simply put:
You will not find a coach with more experience helping people move on from unwanted, intrusive thoughts about their partner's past.
More than a decade of full-time coaching experience has taught me something:
The peace to peace of mind--the path to freedom from retroactive jealousy--is similar for most of my clients.
And having a highly-experienced, dedicated coach can seriously speed things up...
So if you're ready to move on from the relentless intrusive thoughts, and put the final nail in the coffin of RJ, you're in the right place.
However--
If you don't see the value of coaching, or you're not sure if you want to make an investment in beating retroactive jealousy and gaining clarity and peace of mind, coaching isn't for you.
I only work with people who are truly serious, truly excited about working together.
So if you're serious about wanting to overcome retroactive jealousy for good, you want dedicated one-on-one guidance and support from someone who actually "gets it," and you're ready to build a better future and relationship, I'd love to help.
But please note that there is a strictly limited number of one-on-one coaching slots available.
Once my coaching roster fills up, I will not be taking on new clients for the time being.
And my roster may not open up again for several months.
So please read to the bottom of this page, and process your payment as soon as possible if you're serious about wanting to work together one-on-one.
If you'd like to get started on the path to peace of mind, now is the time.
Let's work together to get to the bottom of your retroactive jealousy, let go of painful unwanted thoughts, craft your own personalized plan for healing, and start overcoming retroactive jealousy right now.
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My 3-Step Plan for our First Call
For our first call together, I will follow a time-tested, proven 3-step structure to make the best possible use of your time:
01
Share your story.
First, I'll ask you to share your retroactive jealousy story in as much detail as possible. Remember that, over many years of coaching, I have seen and heard it all--you won't find any judging here. The more you share with me, the more specific, actionable advice I'll be able to offer.
02
Obtain specific feedback on your situation.
As you share, I'll ask follow-up questions for maximum clarity. Then, I'll share my specific advice and insight tailored to you, and your unique situation. Simply put: I know what works and what doesn't--and that's exactly what I'll share with you, depending on your needs.
03
Answer additional questions + follow-up.
Toward the end of our first call, I will answer any additional questions you may have about your retroactive jealousy story, or anything else. I am absolutely committed to getting you the most possible value out of our time together, and helping you find freedom from retroactive jealousy.
A proven, step-by-step system that works.
My coaching methodology involves:
Mentorship
In me, you will find an ally, a coach, a former retroactive jealousy sufferer who knows exactly what you're going through, and how best to heal
Follow-up support
Within 24 hours of our call, my email inbox will be open to you. Send me any follow-up questions you may have, and I'll get back to you with answers ASAP
Over a decade of experience
Take advantage of my decade+ of experience working with retroactive jealousy survivors from around the world. Learn quickly exactly what works, and what doesn't.
Additional resources
Depending on your situation, and your unique needs, I may recommend additional resources which will speed up your recovery even further
Reserve your spot today.
Sign up for one-on-one coaching, and get access to:
Confidential, 1-on-1 video/telephone call coaching calls with Zachary Stockill
Confidential email coaching as necessary
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Meet Andrew, a former coaching client:
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I was in a VERY dark place with retroactive jealousy. One night at work I sat crying... thinking there is no way out of this.
We had our online meeting, discussed a daily routine, and just like that--for 4-5 weeks, RJ was gone, not even a thought.
I'm the happiest I've ever been in my relationship... I want to thank-you from the bottom of my heart for helping me through it.
I was in a VERY dark place with retroactive jealousy. One night at work I sat crying... thinking there is no way out of this.
We had our online meeting, discussed a daily routine, and just like that--for 4-5 weeks, RJ was gone, not even a thought.
I'm the happiest I've ever been in my relationship... I want to thank-you from the bottom of my heart for helping me through it.
Andrew
UK
Meet Charlie, another former client:
I had my first client-coach session with Zachary last night and I'm SO incredibly glad that I did.
I felt that I'd never know pleasure in life again as the depression had become too deep... but within one hour, Zachary managed to take this broken soul and breathe life back into it...
If you haven't looked into the coaching sessions yet, my goodness do I recommend it! Literal game-changer for me.
I had my first client-coach session with Zachary last night and I'm SO incredibly glad that I did.
I felt that I'd never know pleasure in life again as the depression had become too deep... but within one hour, Zachary managed to take this broken soul and breathe life back into it...
If you haven't looked into the coaching sessions yet, my goodness do I recommend it! Literal game-changer for me.
Charlie
UK
Hundreds More Success Stories From Around The World
Since 2013, I've worked one-on-one with hundreds of men and women from around the world to beat retroactive jealousy for good. Read more of their stories below:
"You're the person who got me over something so difficult, something so miserable, and now it's finally over. Thank-you so much, Zach."
Niko
Greece
"My relationship is the best it's ever been... You've given me my life back."
Sara
USA
"It was instant help… There’s a huge difference now… You gave me the tools to fix this."
Zach
USA
"It IS possible to overcome retroactive jealousy... Do the work, and you will NOT regret it... Zach's work on retroactive jealousy is nothing short of brilliant."
George
USA
"It’s a night and day difference, the way that I feel… I’ve never been more at peace… It’s an amazing thing, just feeling free."
Geddy
USA
"[After Zach's work] I just felt free... I'm the happiest I’ve ever been because I can be in a relationship and be happy in it. It’s not tense and awkward situations anymore. It’s just happy."
Elizabeth
USA
"Zach has done far more for myself, and many others with his program than you could ever imagine..."
Joe
USA
"[After Zach's work] I haven't had a bad day with RJ since last winter... The difference I feel is night and day... Worth every penny."
Drew
USA
"Words cannot express how grateful I am. My life did a complete 180... I'm finally enjoying my life and relationship again."
Bennett
USA
"I'd been experiencing 'retroactive jealousy' for the better part of 30 years... And there's a calmness now that I've never felt before."
Simon
Australia
"Today, I feel free, I feel capable... Your work changed my life, absolutely. I would have paid 10 times what I paid for your help."
Toni
Spain
"I'd been a RJ sufferer since I was a teenager... You provided me with the best tools I could possibly find. It's been a huge game-changer for me."
Guy
UK
"I was in a very dark place with RJ. And two months later... my relationship with my wife is the best it's ever been. I wish I would have found you sooner. Thank-you so much."
Steve
USA
"The "mental movies" playing on and on... It destroyed me. Now, it's night and day... Finding you is probably the best thing that ever happened to me, to be quite honest."
Gethen
UK
Thank-you for such a great one-on-one conversation.
The insight and input you gave me was huge... I found huge value in our time together and got things from you I would not have received anywhere else. It's already made a difference...
Thank-you again for all of your work.
Thank-you for such a great one-on-one conversation.
The insight and input you gave me was huge... I found huge value in our time together and got things from you I would not have received anywhere else. It's already made a difference...
Thank-you again for all of your work.
J
USA
Knowing that RJ was irrational was a first step, but I desperately needed a way out...
Zach served as the best possible mentor for love, life and masculinity for me. I don’t know what I’d do without his work.
Knowing that RJ was irrational was a first step, but I desperately needed a way out...
Zach served as the best possible mentor for love, life and masculinity for me. I don’t know what I’d do without his work.
"Christopher"
UK
Thank you for yesterday... I found it to be very helpful.
I appreciate that your approach is not simply validating what I'm saying/feeling, but actually reading into the context of my "situation" and taking a more nuanced approach.
I find that one-size-fits-all cookie-cutter approach to be the most frustrating thing I've encountered with therapists I've tried working with...
Talking with someone like you who understands these specific struggles is refreshing to say the least.
Thank you for yesterday... I found it to be very helpful.
I appreciate that your approach is not simply validating what I'm saying/feeling, but actually reading into the context of my "situation" and taking a more nuanced approach.
I find that one-size-fits-all cookie-cutter approach to be the most frustrating thing I've encountered with therapists I've tried working with...
Talking with someone like you who understands these specific struggles is refreshing to say the least.
"B"
USA
You truly understand this weird issue and have provided me with so much relief...
I really have felt that you can completely relate, and know exactly what to do... You have reassured me that there is nothing wrong with my relationship and did a great job at separating the two from the irrational thought process...
Thank you for everything. You have actually changed my life.
You truly understand this weird issue and have provided me with so much relief...
I really have felt that you can completely relate, and know exactly what to do... You have reassured me that there is nothing wrong with my relationship and did a great job at separating the two from the irrational thought process...
Thank you for everything. You have actually changed my life.
"Alison"
USA
Zachary is a deep and great listener. He will make you feel important when you speak and then show you how to reframe your thought process that will ultimately make you feel more confident about the situation.
After only speaking with him for an hour it changed my thought process and helped me achieve what I wanted much faster...
It was very helpful.
Zachary is a deep and great listener. He will make you feel important when you speak and then show you how to reframe your thought process that will ultimately make you feel more confident about the situation.
After only speaking with him for an hour it changed my thought process and helped me achieve what I wanted much faster...
It was very helpful.
Jason
USA
Working with Zachary has been transformative for my dating life and general approach to understanding women.
As someone who has suffered from retroactive jealousy and social anxiety, having someone with Zachary's wisdom and empathy to help light the way has been invaluable. Not only is Zachary insightful and well-read, he also makes a genuine effort to get to know you individually and tailor his advice to your specific context and personality.
Zachary is so kind and wise that I often feel like I'm talking to the wise older brother who's looking out for me and wants me to realize my potential and live life to the fullest...
Working with Zachary has been transformative for my dating life and general approach to understanding women.
As someone who has suffered from retroactive jealousy and social anxiety, having someone with Zachary's wisdom and empathy to help light the way has been invaluable. Not only is Zachary insightful and well-read, he also makes a genuine effort to get to know you individually and tailor his advice to your specific context and personality.
Zachary is so kind and wise that I often feel like I'm talking to the wise older brother who's looking out for me and wants me to realize my potential and live life to the fullest...
Andres
USA
It's hard to describe how different I feel now compared to a couple of months ago...
As you know, I suffered from RJ for almost two years... There's no way I could've gotten to this point of peace again without you.
Getting the chance to share my story with you and getting your personal thoughts and encouragement was unbelievable... I was stunned by your listening ability, to give such spot-on and useful advice.
You totally changed my life for the good... I'm forever grateful.
It's hard to describe how different I feel now compared to a couple of months ago...
As you know, I suffered from RJ for almost two years... There's no way I could've gotten to this point of peace again without you.
Getting the chance to share my story with you and getting your personal thoughts and encouragement was unbelievable... I was stunned by your listening ability, to give such spot-on and useful advice.
You totally changed my life for the good... I'm forever grateful.
"Raymond"
Belgium
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As you can see with the dozens of testimonials on this page, everyone who shows up to the coaching calls, and follows the laid-out steps, gets results.
But if, for whatever crazy reason, after coaching and taking the steps, you haven't made the progress you were hoping for?
Simply send me an email within 30 days of your purchase confirming that you were unsatisfied with coaching, give me your word that you completed the necessary steps I outlined, and I'll give you free email coaching for an additional 14 days.
Yes, you read that right.
If, after coaching and completing the steps, you haven't made significant progress? I'll offer you an additional two weeks of unlimited email consultations, absolutely free.
Why am I willing to take on this kind of risk?
Because I know coaching works.
What you will discover in one-on-one coaching changed my life, changed the lives of hundreds of others, and I know it will change yours, as you'll see.
I can't tell you how gratifying it has been for me to work one-on-one with hundreds of men and women from around the world, helping them take back the power, save their relationships, and beat retroactive jealousy for good.
If we work together, I will always take your trust and support seriously. I will be committed to helping you get the fast relief you need, and building the future you deserve--a future with clarity and peace of mind. A future without retroactive jealousy.
I can't wait to help you get your retroactive jealousy handled once and for all.
Talk soon,
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