Ready to Put the "Final Nail" in the Coffin of Retroactive Jealousy?
From the desk of: Zachary Stockill
Let me ask you:
What do you think is the "secret" of people who gain permanent clarity and peace of mind about their partner's past?
What are the secrets of those who beat retroactive jealousy for good?
What are they doing that you aren't?
The answer may surprise you.
Let me tell you:
If you're on the path toward gaining clarity and peace of mind about your partner's past, learning how to maintain momentum is absolutely crucial.
Learning how to pick yourself up when you fall, dust yourself off, and get right back on track.
Because when you're struggling with retroactive jealousy, we all have those "moments" when we lose focus, clarity, and perspective.
Despite all the progress we've made, we all occasionally have those moments when a random "trigger" relating to our partner's past sets us off.
We all have those moments when we feel exhausted, hopeless, de-energized.
We all have moments when it seems like we aren't making the progress we hoped for.
(Sound familiar?)
But thankfully...
Even when you have one bad moment after days, weeks, or months of peace.
Even when you feel discouraged, or defeated by retroactive jealousy.
How do I know this?
Because there are thousands of retroactive jealousy survivors around the world who know exactly how to bounce back from these "bumps in the road."
(I know. I have their emails.)
And I can vouch for them myself. Because I'm one of them.
As you probably know, I used to struggle with intense retroactive jealousy.
But that was many years ago. And now I don't.
The people who beat retroactive jealousy for good aren't superheroes.
We aren't special.
But those of us who beat retroactive jealousy for good do have a few things in common...
How do I know?
Because every day since I launched RetroactiveJealousy.com back in 2013, I've been putting together an answer to this quesiton.
Every single day for eight years I've been coaching and working one-on-one with retroactive jealousy survivors from around the world.
Literally thousands of retroactive jealousy survivors from every part of the world, every walk of life...
Men and women who finally arrive at the "final answer" for their partner's past.
Retroactive jealousy sufferers who discovered permanent peace of mind.
Want to join us?
You absolutely can, right now...
Imagine being able to regain mental clarity, focus, and peace of mind about your partner's past whenever you want or need to.
Imagine being able to "bounce back" from a bad day, or a trigger, or a mini "RJ-attack" effortlessly, seamlessly.
Imagine feeling, knowing, deep in your bones, that you will overcome retroactive jealousy. It's just a matter of time.
Does this sound too good to be true?
It's not.
It's actually really simple.
Because--
Beating retroactive jealousy over the long-term is all about two things.
They are:
1) Discovering what I call "options" that give you clarity and peace of mind in any moment, and--
2) Always maintaining your awareness of these options.
And I'm about to prove it to you.
But first...
Tell me if this sounds familiar:
For months, or maybe even years, you've struggled with something called "retroactive jealousy:"
(Otherwise known as intrusive thoughts and/or obsessive curiosity about your partner's past relationships, or dating/sexual history.)
For weeks, months, maybe even years, you suffered in silence.
You didn't know anyone who felt the way you felt about your partner's past.
No one who could relate, or understand.
Nobody "got it."
One day, in desperation, you started to do a little digging online, and you found some resources...
You discovered there's actually a name for this: "retroactive jealousy."
Maybe you found my blog, my podcast, or my YouTube channel.
Hallelujah!
After suffering for so long, you felt incredibly relieved that someone else finally "gets it..."
Someone finally understands what it's like to struggle with intrusive thoughts and obsessive curiosity about your partner's past.
Not so long ago, intrusive thoughts, “mental movies,” and obsessive curiosity about your partner’s past was keeping you up at night, and frequently disrupting your day.
Now, with the help of my work, things are finally starting to get better.
Maybe you read my books, took my online courses, or listened to my previous guided meditation series, Overcoming Retroactive Jealousy.
And it's starting to help you.
At long last, things are starting to get better.
The intrusive thoughts, curiosity, and "mental movies" about your partner's past are starting to get further and further apart.
And that's great!
Or, as I like to call them: "bumps in the road."
Things will be going along great... you're enjoying your time with your partner again, and the intrusive thoughts seem to be easing up...
And then all of a sudden:
BAM!
A random thought, memory, or event seems to disrupt your progress.
Something related to your partner's past.
You feel your heart rate increase, your breath quickens, and it feels like the "mental movies" and intrusive thoughts are threatening to return.
It's the worst.
(I remember. I've been there...)
When you encounter these "bumps on the road" on the road toward beating retroactive jealousy for good, there are things you can do.
Real steps you can take.
What I call "options."
Exercises, perspectives, and practices that thousands of retroactive jealousy survivors before you have used to gain long-term freedom.
And the "final answer" to their partner's past.
What I'm saying is you always have options, even when you feel exhausted.
Especially when you feel exhausted.
Even if you feel like "nothing works."
There are always time-tested, research-proven methods, exercises, and perspectives that you can rely on to regain focus and control in any moment.
Regaining your momentum.
Regaining your energy.
Regaining clarity and peace of mind about your partner's past.
So you can get right back on the road toward healing.
So you can get back to getting things done, and proceeding through your day without retroactive jealousy getting in the way.
So you can keep saving and strengthening your relationship with your partner--before it's too late.
So you can keep planning for the future with your partner—instead of constantly thinking about their past.
So you can maintain your progress toward beating retroactive jealousy for good.
Let me tell you something:
And many of us sometimes need just a little bit of extra motivation, extra inspiration, extra guidance...
The hardest part of overcoming retroactive jealousy is simply making the commitment, and taking that first step.
If you're reading this, you've probably already done that.
The next step is learning how to maintain your momentum, bounce back from these "bumps in the road," and continuing to maintain your progress over the long-term.
Because getting short-term relief is easy...
You watch a random YouTube video, read a book, or read a blog post, and you feel great!
But putting retroactive jealousy behind you for good requires a holistic approach.
And sometimes, a few extra tools, perspectives, and exercises are necessary...
Rather than something that still has the potential to disrupt your day.
Rather than something that still threatens your relationship.
Rather than something that still has the potential to cause you sadness, panic, and anxiety.
Right now, once in a while, some random event or comment about your partner’s past makes you feel like you’re right back to “square one,” all over again.
You’re tired.
Tired of feeling this way, never sure when retroactive jealousy will randomly “attack," in spite of all the progress you've made.
You wish you had more simple and effective exercises to help you regain clarity and peace of mind in the moment, at work, or with your partner.
Something quick, something easy, something you can have handy with you all day, every day… because you're a busy person with a lot going on.
A fast-acting remedy.
A “secret weapon” for maintaining your progress which you can keep handy in your pocket at all times…
An all-new audio series of guided meditations designed for maintaining progress and momentum toward overcoming retroactive jealousy
Hi! My name is Zachary Stockill.
I’m an author, coach, and the founder of RetroactiveJealousy.com.
My work has been featured by BBC News, HuffPost, Radio 4, and many other popular podcasts and publications.
I’m also a retroactive jealousy survivor, and a longtime meditator.
And I'm the creator and host of Beyond Retroactive Jealousy: The Guided Meditations.
Beyond Retroactive Jealousy: More Guided Meditations is an all-new audio series of downloadable guided meditation recordings specifically designed for men and women on the path toward overcoming retroactive jealousy.
After countless positive reviews from RJ sufferers from around the world, this new series is the sequel to my previously-released guided meditation series, Overcoming Retroactive Jealousy.
Based on over 15 years of meditation practice and study, and 8 years of in-depth research and one-on-one coaching with hundreds of retroactive jealousy sufferers, this all-new guided meditation series was designed to be the perfect compliment to my other work on retroactive jealousy.
Simply put:
In this new series, I explore a range of themes and topics chosen to help you quickly recover from a "bump in the road" whenever you need to.
Beyond Retroactive Jealousy helps retroactive jealousy sufferers maintain their progress, clarity and peace of mind through a series of simple, time-tested, and fast-acting guided meditation exercises.
This audio series will give you all the tools you need for repairing the damage caused by retroactive jealousy, and rebuilding your life and relationship in its wake.
Beyond Retroactive Jealousy consists of a series of 10-30 minute audio recordings, approaching each challenge common in "advanced" retroactive jealousy recovery one-by-one.
They are designed to help any RJ sufferer gain calm, clarity, and peace of mind on the road to total recovery from retroactive jealousy.
If you're already working toward overcoming retroactive jealousy, and you need a little extra "boost" sometimes, this series will help.
Even if you haven't made the progress you're hoping for.
Even if you still experience the occasional "bump in the road."
Even if your days are extremely busy.
Even if you’ve never meditated before in your life—
This unique collection of guided meditation recordings will help you "bounce back," and beat retroactive jealousy in the moment whenever you need to.
Having a "bad day" with RJ after a week of good ones? There’s a specific meditation for that.
Struggling to regain your confidence, and “make sense” of your partner’s past? There’s a meditation for that.
Still occasionally "beating yourself up" over past mistakes? There's a meditation for that.
Still struggling to not ask your partner about their past? There's a meditation for that, too.
(I think you get the idea. :)
These guided meditation recordings are fully downloadable to your phone, tablet, laptop, and PC, so you can have them ready and waiting for you whenever, and wherever you need to listen to them.
As long as you have a spare 10-30 minutes, a (somewhat) quiet space, and some kind of listening device, these meditations are designed to help you regain near-instant calm, peace of mind, and mental clarity.
Waking up in the morning with a new sense of confidence and calm, secure in the knowledge that you have this “secret weapon” for maintaining your progress whenever you need it.
Imagine proceeding through your day with ease, just like you used to.
But this unique audio series goes beyond just getting you momentary relief from retroactive jealousy—
Borrowing ancient techniques from Buddhist and Stoic philosophy, and cutting-edge cognitive behavioural therapy, these guided meditations will speak directly to your subconscious, helping to eradicate retroactive jealousy from deep within over time.
You can even listen to them while you sleep! (And some people actually do :)
Experience for yourself the bliss of gaining greater calm, clarity and peace of mind every time you listen.
Experience for yourself the bliss of permanent freedom from retroactive jealousy.
Imagine never worrying about triggers, and "bumps in the road" anymore.
Imagine feeling like your “old self” again at work, and out with friends.
Imagine getting a good night’s sleep again, and waking up feeling refreshed every morning.
Imagine being able to fully enjoy time with your partner again.
But you don't have to take my word for it...
Since it's release in early-2021, my previous guided meditation series Overcoming Retroactive Jealousy has been liberating retroactive jealousy sufferers from around the world.
Men and women just like you, from every background, age, religion, nationality, every corner of the planet.
People dealing with relatively mild cases of RJ, all the way up to “I-literally-cannot-stop-thinking-about-it” levels of retroactive jealousy.
People like 'D':
I love the guided meditation series! It really puts me at ease. I go into the meditations with the enthusiasm of a child on Christmas morning!
There have been a few meditations that I have listened to twice because they REALLY hit home. Thank-you, thank-you Zachary!
Or 'J':
I got the meditations the day you released them. They are really good! I have been using them daily.
Thanks for another great tool for beating RJ OCD.
Or Jose:
I started a new relationship last year -- incredible and different than any I had been in. But during the first few months, I battled with Retroactive Jealousy and its brutality... I would stay up late into the night, thinking about every hypothetical situation and partner; I would obsessively scour social media; I would pester and press my partner for answers...
Not only was it chipping away at the relationship, but it was also absolutely exhausting. My work, mental health, and physical health were taking a toll.
I found Zachary's blog, finally said "enough is enough," and purchased his book. Then, he introduced the first set of guided meditations. The combination of the two had an incredible effect on my mental health. Purchasing the guided meditations to combat Retroactive Jealousy has been one of the best decisions for my personal life..
As someone who had no prior experience meditating, Zachary's guided meditations helped me start this journey.
Read more success stories and testimonials from RJ survivors below:
I was consumed by retroactive jealousy... but there's a huge difference now.
You gave me the tools to fix this.
You're the person who got me over something so difficult, something so miserable, and now it's finally over.
Thank-you so much, Zach.
My relationship is now the best it's ever been... I can't recommend your work enough.
It's given me my life back.
Very, very helpful... It IS possible to overcome retroactive jealousy...
Your work on retroactive jealousy is nothing short of brilliant.
It’s a night and day difference, the way that I feel… I’ve never been more at peace.
It’s an amazing thing, just feeling free.
I just feel free...
I'm the happiest I’ve ever been because I can be in a relationship and be happy in it. It’s not tense and awkward situations anymore.
It’s just happy.
The difference is night and day... If I had known what your work was going to do for me, I would have paid THOUSANDS of dollars for it.
Worth every penny.
Zach has done far more for myself, and many others with his work than you could ever imagine...
Thank-you, Zach.
Thousands of different people, thousands of different retroactive jealousy stories—one common path for healing.
You can join us right now with Beyond Retroactive Jealousy: More Guided Meditations.
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So the only thing left for you to do is to take action right now—
Because you really can start putting the final nail in the coffin of your retroactive jealousy right now if you want to.
Don’t miss your chance to finally start living the life you’ve been dreaming of.
Beating retroactive jealousy for good really can start with nothing but a pair of headphones and an open mind.
I can't wait for you to experience it for yourself.
Talk soon,
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